How to get a girl to like you?

If you are interested in getting a girl to like you there is hope. Everyone wants to know how to get a girl to like them but not that many people actually take the time to sit down and study how to do it. The fact you are reading this now means you are one of a select few, a group of people who take action and learn to improve themselves rather than hoping the situation will improve when it seems completely impossible.

So I guess I hinted to it in my previous paragraph. If you want to get a girl to like you, you’ll have to do something different than what you are doing right now. I mean, if you have this girl in your life and she isn’t responding to your advances or showing any sign that she likes you it could just be –read it probably is likely – that the issue is with you. But don’t fret! Let’s go over how to make a girl like you in 4 easy steps:

Make a girl like you by Noticing something about her

Girls want to be seen, girls want to be desired. Think about it, why do you think girls take longer to leave the house? Why do you think they always dress up so nicely and care that much about how they look?

They want to shine out. They want to feel special and appreciated for it. If you let a girl know that you’ve noticed something unique about her you’ll make her feel special and all warm and fuzzy inside. She’ll start to get curious about you, interested in what you have to say and who you are anyway. She’ll start to like you. This is how you do it kids.

Make a girl like you with by liking her first

So this is a problem a lot of guys have- they don’t have the kohones to actually go up to a girl and let her know that they are interested in her and that they are attracted to her. If she’s a friend of theirs, they don’t have it in them to actually admit to her that they like her as more than just a friend and would like to date her. The problem is that guys don’t understand how much women love to be desired. If you let a girl know that you like her – she will like you back. It’s almost as simple as that.

But there’s a trick. If you really want this girl to like you, you have to make sure that you tell her how you feel about her but without actually expecting a response. You just do it because you want to let her know. Be OK with being rejected. Your power of personality will win her over and she will just end up liking you. Hooray!

Make a girl like you by using strong body language

This is a secret not too many guys know. The reason to this ignorance is because these guys aren’t aware of the fundamentals of attraction. In other words – what makes girls attracted to a guy. The answer is that this is a primal instinct that women have in them. Women become attracted to a man who comes across as the alpha male of the group, someone who is undisturbed with how people think of him and just takes action regardless. Someone who is warm and giving despite being strong. A warm alpha.

So how do you do it? 2 big tips. Tip number 1 – focus on your standing body language. For heavens sake, just stand up straight. Straighten your back and look forward with a direct stare. That’s better.

Secondly, smile. Learn how to fake a genuine smile, if that makes any sense. Just project that warm happy vibe and love all around you. If a girl feels that you are a strong and loving person, she will love you back. But it has so much more to do than just words – it’s how you are and what your vibe is.

Make a girl like you by teasing her

So this is the thing, a lot of guys, when they like a girl completely lose their sack. Or so it seems. They just never ever tease a girl at all. And let’s be honest, a conversation about politics, ending world hunger or the state of the world after the latest economic crisis might be intellectually stimulating, but not very sexy. So what is sexy? Name calling can be sexy. Role play can be sexy. If you’re just being boring, not having fun with her – guess what? She won’t have fun with you either. She’ll think to herself that this is wrong, that something smells funny. She’ll know that you’re just supplicating to her will because you want her to like you. And we don’t want that secret out of the bag now do we?

So instead, tease her. Treat her like she’s your little sister if you’ve ever had one. Call her a brat. Make fun of how she talks. Funnily enough for most girls this will feel lovely and warming. If you make her laugh at herself you are so in bud – making a girl laugh at herself will make her like you.

Summary and conclusion

So let me get this straight – you have a girl in your life that you are interested in but haven’t taken the correct steps to go after just yet? Why is that? Are you making excuses why to talk or not talk with her? You should know better than that. Whether or not a girl likes you has very very little to do with the words that come out of your mouth and a lot more to do with how you carry yourself and what you do.

Get a girl to like you by noticing her, by using your body language, by telling her you like her and by teasing her. Take things to the next level by kissing her, making out with her and making her your girlfriend. It’s all possible – it’s just a matter of you doing what it takes, and she will like you.